Creating Your Future: November 2016 Goals

One of my biggest pet peeves is people who go through their existence acting as though life just happens to them. Your life is something you create. Your actions have consequences as does your inaction. That is why I’m taking the initiative to create my future and I want to help you with creating your future too. The key to creating your future is as easy as monthly goal planning. I’m going to show you how to create specific, actionable goals that will start building the life you desire.

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The key to creating your future is easy. I’m going to show you how to create specific, actionable goals that will start building the life you desire.

Divide Into Categories

When listing out your goals divide them into categories. Don’t just create a long list and hope you get through it. Organizing your goals makes them easy to stick to and easy to reference throughout the month. You also want to limit the categories you choose. If you choose too many then you will be too unfocused to accomplish any of them. Here are some category ideas to help you out, but remember not to try to do all of these in one month:

  • Family
  • Business
  • Finance
  • Fitness
  • Professional
  • Travel
  • Self-Improvement
  • Educational
  • Homemaking
  • Religious
  • Creative
  • Journaling
  • Holiday
  • Savings
  • Weight Loss
  • Organizational
  • Home Improvement
  • Cleaning
  • Long-Term* (See section below about long-term goals)

 

The key to creating your future is easy. I’m going to show you how to create specific, actionable goals that will start building the life you desire.

Long-Term Goals

This is the one exception to choosing extra goal categories. Everyone should choose 3 long-term goals. This step should also be done first. Identifying your long-term goals first allows you to ensure that supporting goal categories work towards achieving your ultimate goals. For example, if you want the freedom to travel when and where you want in 3-5 years then your professional, business, and/or finance goals are needed to achieve this.

 

The key to creating your future is easy. I’m going to show you how to create specific, actionable goals that will start building the life you desire.

How to Choose Your Goals

Step 1

As I said above, choose your long-term goals first. Here are my current long-term goals:

  1. Pay off student loans.
  2. Earn 10k a month from my site and side hustles.
  3. Spend summers travelling with my family.

Step 2

Next, number a post-it note (or scrap piece of paper) 1 through 3.

Step 3

Use the list at the beginning of this post as a reference and write down the categories that you feel correspond with each long-term goal. Overlap is perfectly fine as you can see in my example:

  1. Finances, Business
  2. Business, Organizational
  3. Finances, Business, Family

Step 4

Choose 4-5 categories to set monthly goals for. Be sure to include the ones you listed in step 3 then fill in the empty spots left. Here are my categories:

  1. Business
  2. Finances
  3. Organizational
  4. Family
  5. Self-Improvement

Step 5

Create specific monthly goals under each category. Again, be sure not to overload yourself with more items than you can reasonably accomplish in one month. You can see my November goals below.

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My November Goals

Business Goals

Finance Goals

Organizational Goals

Family

Self-Improvement

There you have it. These are my goals for the month of November. I look forward to sharing this adventure with you. Are you ready to start creating your future along with me? Don’t wait to see what happens, be the catalyst behind it.

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Mom’s Ultimate List of Time-Management Resources

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. That is why time management is so important. Ironically it is the area most moms struggle the most. There are thousands of amazing free resources out there to help you out. The problem is that you don’t have the time to scour the internet for them. If you had that kind of free time you wouldn’t need the resources to begin with. That’s why I’ve created the ultimate list of time-management resources for you. Find the resources you need itemized by category to save you time and get your job done. My friend, for example, got into a bit of a housing dilemma and decided to hire a skip to move all of the rubbish out of her house. Because believe me it was a real mess! She decided to look into rubbish bin hire and she is really glad she did! It helped he manage everyhing a lot easier.

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. Stop being overwhelmed with this ultimate list of time-management resources for busy moms.

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To-Do List

5 Tips to Dominate Your To-Do List

Dominating your to-do list doesn’t have to be hard. Find out my 5 easy tips to do it right here.

3 Tips to Catch Up on Your To-Do List

These tips from Laina at lainaturner.com are fabulous! She has a straight-forward way of kicking your behind in gear and helping you finally get caught up on your to-do list. (Disclaimer: there is some foul language on her site but it is still 100% worth your time to read.)

10 Ways to Get Ahead Even When You’re Already Late

Let’s be fair. We all get behind sometimes. We take on more than we can handle or it is simply a busy time of year. No matter the reason, Momprenuer on Fire can help. I need number one as a reminder every day.

6 Tips to Help You Cross More Items off Your To-Do List

If there is anyone who knows a little something about the importance of time management it is Sharon at momof6.com! She has 6 tips to help you out and they are all fabulous. Scheduling social media time, anyone? Be inspired by a mom who is truly doing it all.

Free Printable To-Do List

Sometimes managing your to-do list is as simple as writing it down. If you need a pretty printable to motivate you then check out this free one from Leslie at LambertsLately.com.

How to Organize a Master To-Do List with a Brain Dump

Do you have a master to-do list? Find out why you need one as well as how to create it with these awesome tips from Kelli at 3boysandadog.com!

How to Get More Done: Work Smarter Not Harder

Shonee at hawthorneandmain.com has great points to help you balance your to-do list. Find out about how she uses time-blocking to get it all done.

31 Ways to Get More Done

If you have time to delve in and really explore, these 31 ideas from Raki at outsidetheboxmom.com are inclusive. With so much juicy content you’ll want to pour yourself a glass of wine while you explore all she has to offer here.

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. Stop being overwhelmed with this ultimate list of time-management resources for busy moms.

Evenings

Establishing Your Evening Routine

What I love most about this post from Natalie at refinedroomsllc.com is that she doesn’t just focus on your routine. As a mom you are largely in charge of the entire family’s routines and she includes tips to help you manage them all.

6 Evening Rituals that Guarantee a Stress-Free Morning

Kara at Everyday Victories has great ideas for your evening to make your mornings better. I struggle the most with her tip for having a set bedtime (and not just for your kids) but it is true that it can seriously makeover your mornings. Get the rest of her tips here.

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. Stop being overwhelmed with this ultimate list of time-management resources for busy moms.

Mornings

Create a Morning Routine that Works for You

Do you hate getting up early? Maybe you just can’t seem to get to bed early enough to pull it off. Either way, I love this post from Melissa at avirtuouswoman.org because she emphasizes how to create a morning routine that works for you whether that means beating your kids to waking up or not. Only you know what works best for your family and she recognizes that.

How to Organize Your Day (For Moms)

This is another great post from Melissa at avirtuouswoman.org that covers structuring your day from morning to night. This is a fantastic resource because she includes how to structure your mornings, your cleaning schedule, and your day with kids. It doesn’t get much better than that.

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. Stop being overwhelmed with this ultimate list of time-management resources for busy moms.

After School

Creating an Afterschool Routine

This awesome resource from Natalie at refinedroomsllc.com is made even better because her tips are paired with an awesome free printable to help keep your kids on track. She covers everything from when they walk in the door to homework time so that your afterschool routine is streamlined and easy.

After School Routine Clock

This idea from Arena at kidsactivitiesblog.com is a little different than all of the others because this is actually a DIY tutorial. However, it is too genius not to include. Kids do fantastic with visual references and this routine clock is perfect for that.

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. Stop being overwhelmed with this ultimate list of time-management resources for busy moms.

Meal Planning

Creating Your Meal Planning Routine

Here’s another great post from Natalie at refinedroomsllc.com. Not only does she give you a ton of tips for creating a meal planning routine, she also gives you free printables to help you do it. Quickly see your meal options and your weekly meals at a glance.

Free Printable Weekly Meal Planners

Just looking for a free printable? Emily at myloveforwords.com has just that. No fuss, no muss, just an easy freebie to get you organized.

10 Steps to Simplify Meal Planning

These steps from Melissa at avirtuouswoman.org cover everything you need to simplify your meal planning from pantry staples to prioritizing.

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. Stop being overwhelmed with this ultimate list of time-management resources for busy moms.

Fitness

5 Tips for Finding Time to Workout

You’ll notice that there’s only one link under this. Why? Because Heather at divasrunforbling.com pretty much covers it with these 5 tips.

My Fitness Board on Pinterest

Part of fitting fitness into your schedule is finding a routine/workout that works for you. Find 30 day challenges, playground workouts, and more on DIY Adulation’s fitness board.

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. Stop being overwhelmed with this ultimate list of time-management resources for busy moms.

Balance

When God Tells You to Slow Down

Part of time-management includes finding time to relax and enjoy your family. Unfortunately we don’t always take the time to do it. When that happens, God has a way of forcing you to slow down. Find out what to do when that happens.

6 Steps to Gain Control over an Unorganized Life

Another important strategy in managing your time is being organized. It’s hard to get you to-do list done when you’re spending all of your time looking for things you need. These 6 tips from Sharon at momof6.com make it easy to implement organizational systems that save you time.

8 Reasons Me Time is Important

Why is it that the first thing that always gets cut is taking care of yourself when you run out of time? That is why you need to read this post from Ash at quirkyinspired.com. She will convince you that you can’t be your best if you don’t take care with some me time.

Secret to Living Life with More Intention and Purpose

This post from Andrea at tablerpartyoftwo.com is more about how she uses her created planner to organize her life. However, I’m including it because she offers a free daily planner printable that is seriously inclusive. It includes all of the components you need to have your day organized at your fingertips.

4 Strategies to Say No Guilt-Free

I love how Kara at Everyday Victories phrases saying no at “defending your time” because that is truly what it is. Your time is a gift but moms often treat it as an obligation that we owe to other. If you need tips for how to say no then you don’t want to miss her strategies.

10 Secrets to Getting More Done as a Full-Time Blogging Mom

Although this post from Cristi at thekeeperofthememories.com is geared towards bloggers, the advice is sound for any work-at-home mom. These are great strategies to knock-out your work and still have time to spend time with your family.

$3 DIY to Save Your Sanity

Timing is everything when it comes to time management. I have found that this one secret is perfect to help your whole family manage time effortlessly.

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. Stop being overwhelmed with this ultimate list of time-management resources for busy moms.

Tips and Planners

Tips to Organize Your Planner

My planner is seriously my lifeline. It helps me manage my time and my to-do list. Part of why it is so effective is because of how I organize it. These tips will tell you why it’s important and how to do it.

How Creating a Routine Makes Yours Day Easier

A routine is an easy way to make sure you accomplish everything you need to in one day. Find out why this is (and how to do it) with this post from Melissa at a virtuouswoman.org.

7 Essential Habits to Instantly Become a Highly Organized Mom

This is another post that covers the basics of getting your life organized. Think of it like a mini-crash course in routine, organization, and time-management. Number 6 from Kara at Everyday Victories is my favorite but they are all fantastic!

One Step to Beating that Crazy Day

Crazy days are inevitable but this tip from Momprenuer on Fire is fantastic. The best part is that it is way easier than you think.

How to Plan Your Life without Losing Your Soul

What does it mean to plan your life without losing your sole? It means that you need to plan it all, not just work and vacations. Find out more and get a free printable to help from Debbie at debbiesinshape.com.

6 Time Management Tips to Master Your Schedule

Erin from erinshebish.com points out the importance of delegation along with 5 other amazing tips to master your schedule. Don’t think that you can’t delegate because you’re a stay-at-home mom, either. Your family needs to work together to take care of things. You may be supermom but you still can’t do it alone.

Free Planning Printables

Yes, this link is to Barb’s 2016 printable planner but I’m including it because her free goal setting and to-do list printables are incredible. See all of it over at Second Chance to Dream!

Whether you work or are a stay-at-home-mom your time is precious. Stop being overwhelmed with this ultimate list of time-management resources for busy moms.

Stop being overwhelmed and feeling like you’re getting nothing accomplished. This list is so inclusive that you can easily find what you need to stay productive as your life and goals evolve. Mom life is hectic but it doesn’t have to cost you a fortune to rock it! Utilize these free resources and be the queen of the playground set. Don’t forget to pin this for later so you can find it when you need more printables or have new tasks to conquer!

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5 Tips to Dominate Your To-Do List

Are you drowning under a never-ending to-do list? Does it seem to grow larger each day and leave you feeling like you’ve gotten nothing accomplished at the end of the day? I have absolutely been there. Then I found a set of sticky notes in the Dollar Spot at Target that totally transformed my to-do list. They simply said “Top Five” followed by a colorful, numbered list. It was an “Ah-ha!” moment. Instead of trying to conquer a giant list of tasks, I started focusing on 5 each day. I am now dominating my to-do list and I’m sharing my 5 tips to dominate your to-do list, too!

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Are you drowning under a never-ending to-do list? I am now dominating my to-do list and I’m sharing 5 tips to dominate your to-do list, too!

1. Use a Planner

It is so important to use a planner. To truly rock your to-do list, use a paper one. This forces you to physically write down your obligations and plans. This increases the retention of those plans in your memory. Find out how to best organize your planner to make it work extra hard for you.

Bonus:

  • Use a wall calendar, too. Write in important events and dates. This serves 2 purposes, one being that those events will be further imprinted on your memory. The second purpose is to help keep your family organized along with you. Instead of hearing, “Mom, what time’s my soccer game on Saturday?” your child can look at the family wall calendar.

 

Are you drowning under a never-ending to-do list? I am now dominating my to-do list and I’m sharing 5 tips to dominate your to-do list, too!

2. Create an Ongoing To-Do List

You also want to create an ongoing to-do list. This can be listed in your planner, on your phone, or in a separate notebook. Put it somewhere convenient that you will have easy access to. Any time that you think of something you need to do such as make a birthday gift or clean your coffee maker, put it on your list. Don’t limit yourself to small tasks. Include bigger ones like re-landscaping or decluttering your clothes. (The picture above is actually my ongoing post list because I keep my to-do list digitally.)

 

Are you drowning under a never-ending to-do list? I am now dominating my to-do list and I’m sharing 5 tips to dominate your to-do list, too!

3. Pick Your Top 5

This is THE most important thing you can do to dominate your to-do list! Each night before you go to bed pick the top 5 tasks that you want to complete the next day. Those tasks take priority over anything else on your to-do list. Even if the rest of your schedule has to change due to unexpected events popping up, do these 5 things.

Optional:

I try to choose my top 5 each day based on categories: cleaning, work, home, family, and self. This helps ensure that no area of my life falls between the cracks. A sample top 5 list using these categories is:

  • Cleaning: Wipe Down Baseboards
  • Work: Write Blog Post
  • Home: Make Freezer Meals
  • Family: Read with Kids
  • Self: 20 Minutes of Yoga

 

Are you drowning under a never-ending to-do list? I am now dominating my to-do list and I’m sharing 5 tips to dominate your to-do list, too!

4. Delegate

Stop trying to do it all. Enlist your family’s help where you can. Give your kids daily chores to help with the housework. Let your husband take over some of the weekly errands. This is one that I still struggle with. I think most moms do. We want to believe that we can do it all but we can’t. Even single mothers can’t do it all. Enlisting help from friends and family is necessary to be at your best and get everything on your list done.

 

Are you drowning under a never-ending to-do list? I am now dominating my to-do list and I’m sharing 5 tips to dominate your to-do list, too!

5. Start with the Worst

Always start on your to-do list with the task you dread the most. This is fluid, meaning it will change from day-to-day and also as you change and grow. If you are just starting to get in shape, exercise will be a dreaded task but as you become fit, you will start looking forward to it. Dishes are more likely to be dreaded on the day you are throwing a birthday party than they are on a regular day. Starting with the worst task on your list each day make the rest of your to-do list easier.

 

Are you drowning under a never-ending to-do list? I am now dominating my to-do list and I’m sharing 5 tips to dominate your to-do list, too!

Now you can dominate your to-do list every single day. Even better is that by sticking to your top 5 like glue, you will see that ongoing to-do list getting shorter. That always creates an awesome sense of accomplishment. If you have larger goals that you need help tackling you can find that help right here. You’ll get the tools you need to conquer every goal you set by breaking it down into smaller, more-manageable goals.

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