5 Amazing Free Stocking Stuffers for Your Husband

Do you struggle every Christmas with what to put in your spouse’s stocking?  Have you finally found the perfect gift only to get it home and find it doesn’t fit?  There always seems to be this added pressure when choosing gifts for your spouse that you just don’t experience when filling your kids’ stockings.  You want to show him how much you love and appreciate everything he does for you.  You want to find that perfect gift that says, “Thank you for being my support, my partner, and my best friend.”  That’s a lot of pressure for a gift.  Is it any wonder that you struggle?  This year, I have some tips to help take the pressure off plus 5 amazing free stocking stuffers that won’t cost you a dime! 

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Do you struggle every Christmas with what to put in your spouse’s stocking? Here are 5 amazing free stocking stuffers that won’t cost you a dime!

Take the Pressure Off

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Shift Your Thinking

Instead of thinking you need to find the perfect expression of love, focus on spoiling your spouse.  When you look at stocking stuffers this way, you stop thinking about you and your feelings and start focusing more on what your spouse would like.  This helps takes the pressure off “finding the perfect gift”.  This also will make it easier to find something you know your spouse will love!

Change the Treats

If you usually buy large bags of mixed bandy to divide among all of the family stockings, don’t this year.  You can still absolutely do this for your kids but take it a step further for your spouse.  If he loves dark chocolate covered cherries make it a point to go to a local gourmet candy store and buy a box of 6 for him.  Picture his face lighting up after pulling that shiny, red ribbon off of the pristine white box and opening it to find 6 of his favorite candies nestled inside! 

Don’t Underestimate Free Gifts

Sometimes you feel guilty when you don’t spend anything on a gift but those are almost always the most memorable gifts.  One of the best gifts you can give to anyone in your life is the gift of your time.  Your spouse is no exception.  Don’t be afraid to give a gift that only took time to create or that gives a promise of distraction-free time together.  If you’re stuck on ideas, I’ve got 5 ideas to get you started.

 

Do you struggle every Christmas with what to put in your spouse’s stocking? Here are 5 amazing free stocking stuffers that won’t cost you a dime!

5 Amazing Free Stocking Stuffer Ideas

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Homemade Jerky

Believe it or not, you can make jerky out of pretty much any meat so don’t be afraid to make some using the meat you already have in the freezer.  In our family, we love jerky made with ground turkey.  I promise you that my husband would be ecstatic to find a bag of delicious homemade jerky in his stocking on Christmas morning.

Game Time

Extra video game time isn’t just a great stocking stuffer for kids.  If your husband loves video game it is probably a point of argument in your marriage, whether it is the amount of time he spends playing or that he gets lost in the game and forgets to take out the trash.  Whatever the arguments are, it will make this gift so much more meaningful when he opens it.  On Christmas Eve, wrap up one of his game controllers with a note letting him know that you are going to have a special date night together to play Halo together.  Don’t worry if you suck, I promise he will just be happy that you’re sharing this with him. 

The New “Mixed Tape”

Remember when you were in high school and you gave or received a mixed tape from your boyfriend.  You still smile thinking about slipping the tape into your Walkman, sliding on your headphones, and pressing play.  Such a simple idea still has so much power 20 years later in your memory.  Recreate this for your spouse by creating a playlist of music that makes you think of him and putting it on a flash drive.

Help With a Project

If you spouse has wanted to put up a shed or organize the garage give him the gift of help. This can be physical help by actually lending him an extra set of arms on the project. However it doesn’t have to be. The gift of prepping the area by clearing all of your stuff out of the garage or cleaning up the toys and debris in the back yard. It can also mean setting aside a weekend that you take the kids to visit the grandparents so that he can have his buddies over to complete the project without little ones running around.

Over-the-Top Romantic

If you want to do something totally amazing and unexpected for your spouse, cut up 100 slips of paper. Next, write something you love about him on each one.  Fold them in half and completely fill his stocking with them.  (You might want to put some candy in first as incentive to get all the way to the bottom!)

Now you have 5 amazing stocking stuffers that you don’t have to spend a dime on. You also have tips to alleviate the pressure of finding the perfect gift.  Remember to think of spoiling your spouse to refocus your efforts on gifts they would like.  Also, plan for your spouse’s stocking just as you would any other holiday gift, including budgeting for it.

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The 10 Best Tips for Shopping Black Friday and Cyber Monday

When you’re trying to save on holiday gift shopping, Black Friday is one of the first ways people think of to try and save.  Admittedly, there are a lot of deals to be had on this day but there is also a ton of frenzy involved which can easily lead to blowing your written budget.  I love shopping on Black Friday but over the years I have developed tips to shopping Black Friday and Cyber Monday effectively.  These tips will help you save money without completely losing track of your budget and gift ideas.

These tips will help you save on Black Friday and Cyber Monday even if you’re completely new to shopping on these days.

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These tips will help you save on Black Friday and Cyber Monday even if you’re completely new to shopping on these days.

Black Friday Tips

Avoid big ticket electronics on these days.

Stores only stock a few of these items to entice you to come in and shop.  In many cases, you won’t get the item that you went in the store for in the first place.

Make a List

Always make a list of the exact items you are going in to buy.  Go in and get those items and leave.  Black Friday is the worst day for perusing the aisles.

Skip the Cart

Don’t grab a cart on Black Friday.  Instead, have several reusable shopping bags that fit over your shoulder to carry your items.  This allows you ultimate maneuverability and helps to prevent impulse buys.

  • Bonus: This is a great workout once your bags are loaded up!

Skip the Purse Too

To make the entire process easier on yourself, the only items I recommend carrying on your person are cash, identification, cell phone, and your reusable bags.  Leave everything else at home or in your car.

Know the Store Layout

Don’t go to a store you’re unfamiliar with.  The “doorbuster deals” are never stocked where they would be stocked regularly.  If you don’t already have a general familiarity with the layout, you are going to get lost and disoriented quickly.  If you don’t regularly go to a store that you believe is likely to have a deal on a gift you are looking for, visit the store once or twice the week before to get an idea of the layout.  You will absolutely thank yourself later.

These tips will help you save on Black Friday and Cyber Monday even if you’re completely new to shopping on these days.

Cyber Monday Tips

Beware of Available Stock

In the past there have been issues with both Cyber Monday and Black Friday online purchases where customers did not receive their orders in time for their celebrations.  This can easily happen any time you are purchasing this online, especially when you use the free shipping option.

Think About Shipping

When you are ordering online, don’t forget to account for shipping.  A lot of stores have a minimum purchase requirement of $50-$100 or more to be eligible for free shipping.  As mentioned above, this also doesn’t guarantee you will receive your items on time.  If you don’t qualify for free then those shipping charges can start adding up fast resulting in hundreds of extra dollars spent. If you’re shopping online, you’ll be able to find loads of coupons from websites such as PromoCodeWatch.com to help you save a bit of money.

Be Cognizant of Packaging

I once ordered an entire tea set (including table and chairs) for my daughter for Christmas.  When it showed up on my porch it was in the box it would have been shelved in meaning that my kids could clearly see what was inside.  In addition to ruining the surprise of the gift, it also exposed me to theft since anyone going by my house could clearly see what items had been delivered.  Always keep this in mind when ordering anything online, especially larger items less likely to be grouped inside another box.

Know You’re Getting the Best Deal

Before purchasing an item that you don’t already know is an amazing deal, do a quick Google search.  It can be easy to get caught up in the flurry of sales.  Luckily, it is so easy to do research when shopping online.  Simply copy the name of the item and paste it into your search engine.  Shopping results are always one of the first snippets listed and you can quickly compare prices.

  • Bonus: You can do this in stores easily as well if you have a bar code scanning app on your phone.  Scan the item and a list of items any prices will come up on your screen.  The caveat is that it does use up data on your plan so keep that in mind if you don’t have unlimited data usage.

Don’t Be Afraid to Let and Item Go

One of the most important tips to remember is to let an item go.  It may be an incredible deal but if it’s not on your list or simply not in the budget this year, let the item go.  Don’t give in to the pressure to “buy now”.  I speak from experience when I tell you that there will be other sales.  Don’t let the illusion that if you don’t get it now, you’ll never be able to find another deal on it get you to purchase something you can’t really afford.

These tips will help you save on Black Friday and Cyber Monday even if you’re completely new to shopping on these days.  The two biggest takeaways I want you to have are that to be effective you have to have a plan and you have to be able to let an item go.  Those two tips alone will save you a lot of remorse and heartache after the holidays have ended.  Plus, if you do it right, Black Friday can actually be so much fun.  Make it an enjoyable experience instead of a chore you feel compelled to do in order to save money.  If it stops being fun use any of the other holiday gift options to help you save money without shopping these sales.  Ultimately, the holidays are meant to be enjoyed.  That’s why you want to stick to your budget in the first place.

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  31 Days of Saving on Holiday Gifts: the free course to help you have you best holiday season yet! From building a strong budgetary foundation to finding small and large ways to save, this will help you knock your holiday gifts out of the park without breaking the bank!                                                     Check out #write31days

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Credit Cards Will Ruin Your Holiday Gift Budget

You now know how to use your existing debt to keep you on budget this holiday season.  There is another powerful tool to help you stay on budget and avoid impulse buys.  Unfortunately it is also one of the most seductive pitfalls, especially during the holidays.  It is so important not to use credit cards during your holiday shopping when the temptation to overspend is even greater than usual.

 

These tips will help you keep credit cards from blowing your holiday budget.

 

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These tips will help you keep credit cards from blowing your holiday budget.

Why Not Use a Credit Card?

You don’t want to be loaded down with more debt after the holidays.  Credit cards will definitely lead to remorse later.  Holiday deals and sales are specifically designed to get you to spend more.  Retailers spend hundreds of thousands of dollars a year just to study how to use sales, product placement, and the store atmosphere to psychologically trick your mind into opening up that wallet.  Don’t let them win with you.

 

These tips will help you keep credit cards from blowing your holiday budget.

How to Avoid Credit Cards

Making sure you have no other method of payment besides your allotted cash means you don’t have to rely on will power to keep you from overspending.  It is a built-in safe guard against impulse purchases.

 

These tips will help you keep credit cards from blowing your holiday budget.

Store Charge Cards

The same goes for store cards as for regular credit cards.  Unfortunately, a lot of department stores have the ability to issue you a temporary card for that day plus you don’t even need the physical card to shop the store online.  To avoid going over budget at these stores may require some more extreme measures.

These may seem crazy or strict but if you are really serious about saving on your holiday gifts you will do whatever it takes.  I know how tempting it is (Macy’s was getting so much money from me at one point that I had to stop shopping there altogether for years) but you will thank yourself in the long run for resisting.  Also, don’t forget about your debt slip.  If you have your own store kryptonite, try adding the amount you already owe that store onto your slip separate from your total.

See where I’m linking up!

  31 Days of Saving on Holiday Gifts: the free course to help you have you best holiday season yet! From building a strong budgetary foundation to finding small and large ways to save, this will help you knock your holiday gifts out of the park without breaking the bank!                                                     Check out #write31days

Missed the introduction to this series?                 Find out more about #write31day

Click 31 Days of Saving on Holiday Gifts.